How to make a girl like u on whatsapp
10 Infallible Tips on How to Get a Girl on WhatsApp
Would you like to get a girl through WhatsApp but don’t know how exactly to do that? This article is going to give you some good tips for impressing girls just using your messages alone.
I can admit that it can be pretty tough for boys to get an idea of how to impress a girl on WhatsApp that they might like. All social media is a minefield, especially when conversations are happening over WhatsApp chats and text, it could be really easy to be rejected and the feel this anxiety all the time.
Allow me to introduce myself. I am Frankie Caruso and I have spent the past five years analyzing and testing every type of text message a man might send to a woman.
Many are often worried that they say the wrong thing when sending a message that could convey the wrong idea. Worse yet, she may not even know that you are flirting.
Trust me, we all have these concerns.
Additionally, you have the dilemma of choosing a topic that keeps her interest while sending flirtatious text that cannot get misconstrued as sleazy or dirty. Too much and she loses interest rapidly.
Seem like it is an overwhelming task? Welcome to the club. No need to worry however, because today I’m going to give you 10 Tips to Impress the Girl of Your Dreams Using WhatsApp. This guide is going to help her see that you are the one for her.
Before you read into the 10 tips that I will provide, you should check out another excellent guide called Obsession Method. I was able to get a lot of valuable information about my texting experiments here.
Really, this is nothing but a simple guide providing real examples to help illustrate points. The author offers multiple obstacles you might face and the best approaches they determine to overcome them. Use this the gain some perspective about who is getting your messages and learn many of the common mistakes that boys make when they message girls.
Frankie’s Take:
Below you are going to find some excellent tips to help you land your crush.
Apart from these, I would also recommend learning some good WhatsApp tricks that can come in handy while chatting with the love of your life.
10 Tips to Impress a Girl Through WhatsApp
1. Keep It Clean
There is no girl worth your time that once someone speaking dirty to her right off the bat. Women like to be made to feel special. Think about what you want to say, keep it flirty and fun to get started.
This is going to be sure to grab her interest and will keep her talking to you. As things progress, you will have your opportunity to take this WhatsApp chat to another level. In the beginning, keeping it clean is the only respectable way to go.
No girl wants to listen to some sleazy guy drone on about crass things. Sure as the sun rises, you will never hear from her again. In his all about the appropriate timing and balance of your conversation using all the tips that you will learn through this article.
Frankie’s Take
Most girls do not like to hear a guy talk dirty out of the gate.
There are certain contexts where you can use off language like this, but initial chats with a girl is not one of them.
2. Timing is Everything
Sending messages via WhatsApp chat at night is a great place to start. She will be thinking about you when she goes to sleep.
The nighttime is ideal because most people tend to have less going on and all of their friends around – which inevitably hinder any hope of good conversation.
A good morning message, however, is a great small way of telling her you are thinking of her.
Frankie’s Take:
Timing is everything in life, and this conversation with her is no exception. Determine the best times to talk to avoid issues of her being busy or studying.
3. Short Messages Are Always Better
If you begin with shorter messages on WhatsApp, you add a sense of mystery. This is likely to keep her interested and less likely for her to be bored rather than waiting on your long winded messages to arrive.
Let’s begin with something simple like hi or hey. Maybe how’s it going. If she asks if you’ve had a good day, there’s no need to tell her everything. Just say great thanks. Short and sweet is a guaranteed winner.
She will be more attentive to ask what you’ve been doing, who you were with, and similar questions if you only say that your day was great. Also, this is better than you rambling on about nothing.
Frankie’s Take:
Try to always keep this principle in mind. Learning how to talk to a girl without making the conversation boring is essential. This boredom can strike fast when people are chatting on WhatsApp and wait for long answers.
4. Use Her Name
This is more of a subconscious step, but when you start your message with her name, she knows that you are speaking to her and only her. No girl wants to think that she’s getting a message a boy is sending to every girl that he knows. “Hey, Lisa” is enough.
Keep it simple and upbeat.
It is absolutely imperative that you always spell her name correctly and use the right name. Errors like this will cause her to lose interest immediately and end the conversation.
If you make this mistake, then you can kiss any opportunity of getting further with this girl goodbye. She needs to feel like she is the only special person in your life.
Frankie’s Take:
The sound of someone’s own name is often the favorite melody to a suitor. Use the girls name often during your chat and make sure not to misspell it. Screwing it up early is a surefire way to blow your chance before it ever became one.
5. Make Her Smile
Humor can never be undersold. When you are sending messages through WhatsApp, everybody loves to laugh. Girls like a man who could make them smile, and this is a surefire way that you can impress her without trying hard.
Now this does not mean to go overboard and tell dumb jokes, teasing a girl in a playful manner can keep her interested well chatting with you on WhatsApp.
This also helps to make her feel more comfortable and therefore attracted to you.
Making fun of yourself in a joking way is sure to raise a smile as well as interest in you as well. Remember, don’t go overboard. Humor might be great, but if she gets the impression you won’t take anything seriously, this is just as bad. Keep it balanced.
Frankie’s Take:
I should reiterate here that keeping it clean is important period dirty jokes with the guys might be great for a laugh, but the girl you are trying to impress will not be happy with those same types of jokes. As time goes on and things progress, you will get an idea of what type of humor she likes and tailor your delivery to this. Until you’ve spoken for a while, it is a better practice to keep the humor is clean as possible.
6. Keep on Flirting
Flirting is often what pushes you over the line between somebody that could be a love interest for her and someone she considers to be a friend.
In the beginning when chatting on WhatsApp, remember to keep flirting clean and subtle. She is not your girlfriend, just someone you are interested in.
Flirting makes the girl feel special and is a great way to get off to a good start. Gentle teasing, flirty humor, and subtle positive comments are the perfect approach to getting your flirting off the ground.
Remember to draw a line between clean and positive flirting and gross and sleazy flirting. Something you might think is subtle could scream disgusting to her. Make sure to read through your messages before you hit send.
Frankie’s Take:
You should always flirt with her and never let yourself stay in the friend zone. Flirting should never be forced, however. It also should not be out of context or dirty. Try to flirt sensibly and in a balanced way that makes sense in your conversation.
7. Don’t Look So Desperate
Bar none this is one of the worst possible things you can do.
It will ruin any chance of impressing a girl. She will be driven away entirely because desperation is very off-putting.
You have to maintain a balance of showing interest but not seeming desperate. This is essential in successfully getting this girl to like you. Confidence will help, because this will inevitably impress the girl you are chatting with on WhatsApp.
This means that as soon as you get a message from her on WhatsApp, whatever you do, don’t jump to answer it right away. Give it a little time to breathe. Don’t wait too long to respond, but just enough so you don’t seem quite so desperate for her interaction.
Frankie’s Take:
Much like boys, girls enjoy their space. You have to maintain the appropriate balance of not playing too hard to get while adding some mystery to the mix about you.
8. Don’t Always Be Available to Chat
Ironically enough, impressing a girl on WhatsApp can often mean being unavailable.
This is what will make her realize she misses having those chats with you.
Over a period of a month or so, try to make yourself unavailable for just a couple of days.
Is another way to make sure you don’t seem desperate as well. As the adage goes, ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder.’
Frankie’s Take:
Humans are developed with a cognitive bias. This makes us interested in things we are not sure we can have. Show your interest in the girl, but don’t let her think that she can have you and your attention whenever she so desires.
9. Compliments are King
Women are wired to want to feel good, and this often happens by getting compliments. This can change their entire outlook on a person, as well as making a day brighter when it wasn’t going so well.
As with these other tips, going overboard could cause this process to backfire and leave the girl feeling embarrassed or awkward. Similarly, too much can also leave you coming across as desperate.
This is a great way to chat to someone you might not know very well on WhatsApp.
Compliments about her clothes, hair, or skin rather than her figure are guaranteed to land well. Not everyone is born with the body of a supermodel, and even if she does have supermodel looks, this will just make it seem as if you’re only interested in her appearance and not who she is as a person.
Frankie’s Take:
Girls just want to feel special. You give a girl compliment at the right moment and this is a sure way for her to be smiling and paying more attention to you and your conversation.
10. Leave Her Wanting More of You
When you are chatting with a girl on WhatsApp, make sure to end conversations on a high note. You can choose to end the conversation when you feel it is running out of steam before things get to a weird space.
This will make her look forward to chatting with you again because she will have much more to ask you and want to talk about.
This also makes you come across as less boring.
A conversation is starting to wind down and needs to be stopped to ensure that interest levels stay high.
‘Gotta go, talk tomorrow’ is the perfect means of ending a conversation. To her, you have something else you need to do other than chat on WhatsApp, she is left with the mystery of what that could be and is anxious to find out more.
A WORD OF CAUTION
It is important to note that spelling is critical. That may sound like something you hear at school, but taking time to check that you have spelled everything correctly makes you stand out. A girl likes to see a boy who took time and effort into messages that he has sent.
The real takeaway here is that you are someone who is intelligent. You can hold a conversation and are actually interested in her and what she has to say. With so many people now choosing text speak over actual full words, this might take a little extra time to check your WhatsApp message before hitting send.
But this is a subtle yet strong way to show that you are interested in the girl.
You might want to check out – Taking to Girls Without Any Foolishness
3 Things to Know When You Are Chatting to a Girl on WhatsApp
Here is the first thing you need to keep in mind.
1. Who Cares About Perfect Messages? Be You
It is not at all uncommon for men to overthink about what they intend to text a girl.
They get anxious about writing this or that word. It makes chatting almost impossible.
Ironically enough, the more afraid of sending the wrong text message you become, the more you increase your chances of not actually getting a reply. The back and forth will drive you nuts. Here is an easy way to avoid this problem: stop caring so much about her reaction.
Yes, there are tricks to get a reply, but the last thing you need to do is stop being yourself to follow a script of techniques that don’t actually sound like you at all.
Frankie’s Take:
Don’t lose your mind focusing on all of these extra things.
Be you and only you. Techniques can be a supplement to help you move the conversation along, but don’t lose yourself in that somewhere. You are better off making a mess of a conversation than never doing anything – so just go for it.
2. Other Guys Are Texting Her
Half of men don’t know, and the other half will conveniently forget that any cute girl is likely to have multiple conversations and notifications on WhatsApp happening at any time.
Do you realize how many guys are willing to text a girl behind a screen because they are less exposed and vulnerable? You were doing it yourself, so surely someone else is as well.
Don’t be afraid of her being particularly sensitive to WhatsApp flirt, because she receives this sort of thing a lot. If she’s not telling you, it’s so that you do not get upset.
Being one of several guys might seem discouraging, but if you see it from the other perspective, it’s also a little freeing. You can more easily push limits and feel a little less stressed knowing that the field is a little wider.
Consider it like being afraid to raise your voice in the middle of a library when everyone is silent, but you don’t have that same feeling when you are inside of a stadium during a game. You aren’t afraid to speak up.
Frankie’s Take:
The best thing you could do for yourself is to get it in there and give it your best shot. Don’t be scared off by competition. Make it an incentive to be more creative and unique and earn her time.
3. She May Stop Responding at Random
If guys are experienced with texting girls, they realize that at some point they may just up and stop texting back altogether.
I have witnessed a man’s reaction when she suddenly stops answering, especially if he learns that she saw the message but chose not to respond.
The first reaction is always astonishment, and this is quickly followed by annoyance. Finally, the guy will start uttering phrases like “How come she didn’t reply? I wrote her such a nice message and she was into it.
Why?”
Phase three is anxiety that follows and other conversations they are inevitably going to have with girls. This anxiousness relates to the fact that at any point she could stop responding.
This anxious man will come up with every possible trick to keep the conversation going even beyond its reasonable limits.
I have been here myself. It is not an attractive place to be. In fact, this is an awful chain that leads you nowhere. I wanted to make sure you avoided it by mentioning it here.
So how do you avoid it?
First, start with the idea that at any point she may not answer you back. You don’t have the luxury of stressing about that. You could also be amazing on WhatsApp and have great conversations, but for some reason it just doesn’t workout.
So, then you ask: why would she not respond to my messages?
There are only one of two possible reasons:
- She isn’t interested
- She’s doing something else
Was a kind of a cowardly way to tell you that she’s not interested, sure, but you have to consider that a woman doesn’t want to openly reject a guy to make him upset and feel bad.
The thought in this process is that you will figure it out for yourself.
Yet another reason why she might not answer you this because she’s doing other things at the moment. She could be studying or working, she could be messaging a different friend about important things, she could be arguing with somebody, there are thousands of possibilities.
A girl is always involved and whatever she is doing on an emotional level.
A classic girl might be taking an exam or finishing a job for her boss, so she is always excited and involved. So, imagine her getting your flirty text in the middle of all that with no hope of really continuing that conversation for some time. If enough time passes, she might forget she saw it at all.
Frankie’s Take:
You must account for the possibilities that she might stop responding, but that shouldn’t wreck your ego or your feelings. Feel bad for never trying, not when you did, and they didn’t work out.
FAQ
Should I be using voice messages?
Many underestimate the power of voice messages, so in turn, they rarely use them.
This is very wrong, especially if you are messaging a girl that you have not met yet.
Emoji can help to provide context to your statements, but they don’t come close to matching your voice, accent, and inflection.
Consider that, very often, voice messages are a starting point for new conversations. Rarely does the first voice message you receive go unnoticed and in truth, two things will almost always happen:
- She will comment on your voice
- She will also reply with a voice message herself
Now, you might be saying that’s it? But this is more than you might think. Most conversations happen in writing, offering very little emotion to statements made.
One of the ways that you could stand out from the crowd is doing something different, so you were heard, quite literally. She could perceive you as being closer than you might actually be.
It is good to hear the tone of the voice of the person you hope to be dating.
This applies to you both. So trust me, try out a voice message.
How often should I send WhatsApp chat messages to a girl?
One of the easy principles here is to delay her time slightly. The objective is to delay her response time a little bit.
If she responds to you right away, my advice is to reply back to her just a little later than that.
If she responds after one or two minutes, you can write back in three or four. You are sending a signal that you are not fond of her but at the same time you do care. This creates some anticipation and makes the conversation more intriguing overall.
Are there common mistakes to avoid?
There are two terrible habits and mistakes that you can avoid while chatting with somebody on WhatsApp. The first is not being ironic and the second is being oppressive.
I really could be a powerful tool when dealing with games of seduction on WhatsApp. Sending a girl funny photos and memes, surprising her with an ironic answer to a serious question, or charming her with other examples like this could be a great way to raise her interest.
Women do not like potential partners who indulge in existential talk on WhatsApp (there will be time for those sorts of conversations in the future.)
you should keep conversations informal and lighthearted whenever possible. This is the only way to pave the road it’s successfully play the seduction game on WhatsApp with potential partner.
Conclusion
So that is what you need to know. If you want to get in a relationship with a girl, there are 10 tips above that can help you impress a girl on the WhatsApp chats. Sure, it seems like there may be a lot of do this and don’t do that, but everything in these tips ensures that you impress the girl you like.
If the girl still isn’t interested after you put so much effort in, then maybe she isn’t the one that you should be with. Keep in mind, some girls are shy and don’t know how to respond initially. So, invest your time, but if it’s not working out, just don’t beat yourself up about it and move on.
Many girls would love a boy to spend time chatting to them on WhatsApp. If a girl seems uninterested, it is likely not worth wasting your time on. Lots of girls would love to chat with a guy that can flirt, be respectful, and compliment her. She will especially like it if that same guy is mysterious and interesting at the same time.
I want to remind you that I have written about WhatsApp tricks that could also come in handy when you chat with girls on the app. Take a look at this article.
Go ahead and write that WhatsApp message to the girl you like. Live a little. You might just find that she is the girl of your dreams after all.
Cheers and good luck,
Frankie
PS – How do you text a girl? I have 100 great examples of messages that you can send to your dream girl.
How to Chat and Flirt With Girls on WhatsApp? (50 Examples)
So you finally got a girl’s WhatsApp and now you are ready to start chatting with her.
Unfortunately, that’s where many guys fail and end up losing the girl’s interest.
They either don’t know what to say to a girl they like or are not able to keep the conversation going.
In our WhatsApp guide, we will take a look at how to start a conversation, keep a girl interested, get a date, and make her fall in love with you.
Don’t miss: 50 Examples of How To Text Someone You Haven’t Talked To In Awhile
Why Should You Use WhatsApp to Chat With Girls?
WhatsApp is a very popular messaging app, and most girls already have it on their phones.
Some women use WhatsApp because it is a cheaper alternative to texting while others use it when they are out of the country.
However, the biggest advantage of WhatsApp is that you can quickly switch from chatting to video calling.
Whatever the reason, WhatsApp is a perfect tool to flirt and chat with girls.
To talk to a girl on WhatsApp, you will need to get her number.
If you already have it, great!
If you don’t have her phone number, you will need to get it before you can start chatting.
The good news is that most girls will be more open to sharing their phone numbers if you tell them that you just want to chat with them on WhatsApp without implying that they have to do anything else (ex. going on a date with you).
Many girls don’t want to give their phone number to a guy they just met because they are afraid that he might end up being a creep or a stalker who will continuously call and message them.
There are a lot of weird people on dating apps like Tinder so it is hard to blame girls for being careful with their numbers.
To increase your chances of getting a phone number only ask for it if you already exchanged at least 10 messages on a dating app and you feel that a girl is comfortable chatting with you.
If you are not using online dating to meet girls a couple of good premium sites you can try are eharmony and Zoosk.
Don’t miss: 27 Examples of How to Not Be a Dry Boring Texter
How to Ask a Girl for Her WhatsApp?
If you met a girl online on a dating app like Tinder or Bumble, you can tell her something like:
- Hey, I don’t go on Tinder much.
What is your number? I will add you on WhatsApp. 🙂
2. Hey Kate, do you have WhatsApp? I want to send you something 🙂
3. Hey, do you mind if we chat on WhatsApp? I like it better than Tinder messenger”
4. I love chatting with you here but I am honestly not a big fan of Tinder. Do you have WhatsApp by any chance?
5. You sound pretty awesome! Send me your number and I will text you on WhatsApp.
7. I really enjoy chatting with you. Would you happen to have WhatsApp?
8. This app is so frustrating, do you have WhatsApp?
9. You seem really cool and I’d love to get to know you better. Would you be okay with exchanging numbers? I promise I’m not a creeper, we can just chat on WhatsApp. 🙂
10. Can I have your digits so I can add you on WhatsApp?
Here are another 12 unique examples of how to ask a girl for her number.
One of the reasons why it is important to move your chat from Tinder or Bumble to WhatsApp is to get rid of all the competition.
Most girls only have friends in their WhatsApp contact list and now you are one of them.
On dating apps on the other hand she might be chatting with several guys at a time and you are just one of them.
How to Start a Conversation With a Girl on WhatsApp?
Now that you have a girl’s number, it’s time to start chatting with her.
Message her something fun and open-ended – you don’t want to put too much pressure on her.
For example, say something like:
11. Hey, it’s me Mark! What are you up to?
12. Hey, it’s Mike, the hot guy from Tinder
13. Hey, it’s Dave! So what are you up to/how is your day going?”
14. Hi, it’s Tom. Love your profile picture with a puppy. How old is he? (Comment on her WhatsApp picture)
15. Hey it is me. Any exciting movie plans for tonight? I need some ideas 🙂
16. Hey, I saw you were online and thought I’d say hi!
17. Hey, I’m just wondering if you’re up for a chat? 🙂
18.
Have you seen the new Marvel movie? I really want to see it!
19. So what do you like to do for fun?
20. I love your profile picture, where was it taken?
Even though this may seem simple, it is a friendly way to start a conversation.
If you need more ideas on how to message a girl for the first time, read this article – How to Text a Girl for the First Time and Get a Date?
How to Keep a Girl Interested?
Now that you started chatting, it is important to keep it going.
Ask her questions and tell her funny stories.
21. Hey, so when did you go to Mexico for vacation? I‘ve been planning a trip there for a while now.
Tell your own funny story about your trip to Mexico to make her laugh and build more rapport.
22. The last time I went to Mexico I by mistake went into the wrong room in my hotel. Good thing I noticed there was a couple already sleeping on a bed there. I guess in the heat of the moment they forgot to close the door lol Do you have any crazy stories from your travels?
Also, don’t be afraid to flirt with her while at the same time trying to get to know her.
23. Do you have blue eyes? I was trying to figure out if we have the same eye color.
24. What was your favorite TV show when you were younger?
25. Do you have any pets? I have a dog myself and she’s the cutest thing in the world.
26. What kind of music do you like? I’m a huge fan of rap and hip-hop.
27. What’s your favorite color? I’m just curious.
Here are 59 flirty questions to ask a girl over WhatsApp. However, try not to make your questions overly suggestive if you haven’t met her in real life yet.
It is much easier to flirt with a girl in person because you can use your body language which is crucial when it comes to flirting.
Also, some guys with a lack of dating experience often end up offending a girl when trying to flirt or tease her because she can’t read their facial cues and might not realize that they are just joking.
Remember that your goal is to make her interested in you intimately and not just as a friend.
When she tells you about what she has been up to, comment on it, or ask her more about it – she will appreciate that you are interested in her life.
Girls like guys who they can actually talk to, instead of guys who only talk about themselves.
Now that you are talking, remember to throw in some compliments here and there.
28. I like your glasses! You look very cute in them.
29. You look very stylish in your outfit.
30. You look so adorable in your last photo!
31. You have such a lovely smile.
32. You look like a model in your photos from your Mexico vacation!
Make sure what you tell her is genuine and do not compliment her by putting other girls down. Even though this is a popular flirting technique, it will only make you look like a jerk.
If you want to say something like, “Wow, you’re so much smarter than all the other girls I know,” don’t do it.
Instead, say something like, “Wow, you’re really smart, it’s really awesome!” There is no need to insult others when complimenting her.
Don’t miss: 10 Ways To Flirt With An Older Woman
How to Ask a Girl on a Date?
So you’ve been talking to a girl for a while and now it’s time to make a move!
As a rule of thumb, it is better to ask for a date sooner than later. Too much back-and-forth texting can make some girls bored and ruin your chances of getting a date.
33. I am going out for a drink at this new bar downtown. Would you like to join me?
34. Hey, would you like to grab a cup of coffee sometime?
35. Hey, my friends went to this new ice cream place downtown last week and really enjoyed it. Would you like to go with me? I really want to try it.
36. I know you love art. There is a new exhibit opening at the museum downtown. Would you like to go see it with me?
37. I am going to this new coffee shop tomorrow. Would you like to join me? They supposedly make the best coffee in town.
38. Hey, how about we go to the zoo this weekend? Haven’t been there in ages.
39. I was just thinking, since we both like hiking, maybe we could go on a hike together sometime?
40. I want to take you out. Are you free on Friday?
41. I know you love going to the beach. Would you like to go to the beach with me sometime?
42. I am going on a hike this weekend. Would you like to join me?
43. There is this great new restaurant that just opened up. I have been dying to try it. Would you like to go with me?
44. I am thinking about going to the zoo next weekend. Would you like to come with me?
45. I am going to a concert next weekend. Would you like to join me?
46. I am going to the carnival next weekend. Would you like to come with me and go on some rides? Should be a lot of fun!
47. I am going out for drinks with my friends tonight. Would you like to come with us? You can bring your friends along as well.
48. I was wondering if you would like to go out to dinner with me.
I know this great new restaurant that I think you would love.
49. I was thinking that maybe we could go see a movie together sometime. There’s this new movie that I really want to see.
50. What do you think about going on a picnic together? I know this great spot that I think you would love.
If she says, yes, great! If she doesn’t say yes or avoids the question, then do not try to force her to go out with you.
If she isn’t interested, that’s not your fault. Most importantly, do not be bitter about it.
There are a lot of single girls and you don’t want to waste your time on someone who doesn’t want to go out with you.
No matter how many compliments you give a girl, she does not owe you anything.
Here are more ideas on how to ask a girl on a date.
How to Make a Girl Fall in Love With You?
Many guys are looking for a secret that will make a girl fall in love with them.
However, you need to keep in mind that WhatsApp is just a tool and if you are afraid to ask a girl out after chatting with her for a few days, she might start thinking that you only want to be her friend and not a lover.
Unless there is something that prevents you from asking her out and meeting her in person, the girl might put you in the same category as all other “nice guys” who tried to chat her up on WhatsApp.
If you are actually not able to meet her in person, because you live far apart or for any other reason, try video calling her or even better ask her on a date over Zoom.
It is much easier to make a girl fall in love with you if she can see and hear you.
Avoid becoming her texting buddy at all costs!
Read next: 150 Flirty Texts to Send to Your Crush
Must Read
Html code here! Replace this with any non empty raw html code and that's it.
Related Articles
ideas, examples, phrases for SMS. Apologies in verse. What words will make a girl smile?
Summary of the article:
- What to write to a girl in the first message?
- How to proceed further?
- What to write to a girl you like?
- How to apologize in verse to a girl?
- What should not be written to a woman?
- How to write to a girl in an original way: "Hi"?
- Video: funny attempts to meet
Many guys have a problem, they don't know what to text a girl to make her feel good.
It's not difficult when you know a person for a long time, but if you've known each other for several days, it's hard to guess which phrase will cheer her up and create the right impression. We will try to help, share our experience and imagination, as well as tips from experienced people.
What to write to a girl in the first message?
The most difficult thing is to start, the first letter is undoubtedly difficult to formulate, because there is a person whom you do not know at all, and often you have never seen. Therefore, you should be modest and avoid vulgarity in messages, but keep intrigue and originality:
- “Today is suitable for a pleasant acquaintance, can it take place?”;
- "Hello, I'm also a fan of this group, tell me, on which site is it better to download their songs?";
- "I can't solve this problem, can you help me?";
- "Hi, don't you remember me?";
- “I need to make a gift for my sister, tell me what a 12-year-old girl might like?”;
- “Hello, my name is Sergey, I am a member of the same group, so I wanted to get acquainted”;
- “Today I dreamed of a beautiful stranger, and in the morning I accidentally saw your photograph, are there such coincidences?”;
- "Let's just become a friend and girlfriend?";
If you are really interested in her, study her page: what she likes, what groups she is in, what music she listens to.
This will give you information with which to start dating.
How to proceed?
If she doesn't answer, don't insist, it means she doesn't want to. The girl answered with a phrase that suggests further communication - act. It all depends on the goals here, if this is flirting for an easy relationship, then do not delay with poems and emoticons, throw in a few defining phrases:
- “Are you sad? I can brighten up the evening for a lonely girl”;
- "Baby, I'm excited about your hot photos, do you want to meet?";
- "You're cool and I'm not a miss, I think we'll have a great time together, don't you mind?";
- “Ready to shine myself to you, are you ready?”;
By answering them, she will immediately make it clear what she is ready for. But, when you are looking for a serious acquaintance - correspondence can last indefinitely, take your time, do not push, get to know the person and at the same time don't forget to compliment :
- "Great photo, how did you manage to take such a picture?";
- "I rush here every time to spend an evening in pleasant company";
- “I didn’t find a message from you today and got upset”;
- "I'm interested in communicating with you on the Internet, I'm sure it's more interesting in real life.
"
Feel her slowly, talk less about yourself, if she is interested, she will ask herself, this will be a good sign.
This video shows some interesting, original examples of such messages, after which any girl will surely melt:
What to write to a girl you like?
You have already met a little, maybe you are dating and so you want to please your beloved with a message during the day:
- "They say that angels live in heaven and only occasionally descend to earth - I was lucky, I saw one yesterday";
- "The most beautiful eyes are now reading this message";
- "The most pleasant thing I can do is think about you";
- "Baby, when you are far away, the days and nights last twice as long, and the sun does not shine so brightly, I want to be there";
- "The best girl was with me tonight";
- "You see the weather has deteriorated because you are sad today, give people joy - smile";
- "You cured me of color blindness, now I see the world in bright colors";
You can use these phrases as is, you can change the meaning by adding an appropriate emoticon and a touch of humor for a good mood.
How to apologize in verse to a girl?
It happens that a guy offends a girl, and then it's hard to find words of apology. Of course, it is better to personally ask for forgiveness, but sometimes there is no way and the Internet comes to the rescue.
Use the usual touching sentences:
- "Forgive the fool, I was wrong, I'm afraid to lose you greatly";
- "I know that because of my mistake you are not sleeping now, I want to change everything that happened to be forgotten."
Or send poems :
I want you to shine with a smile,
Forgive my mistakes!
My baby furrowed his brows,
Sorry for the grief!
One stayed and miss,
One now I'm on the way,
It's not too late to admit my guilt,
Forgive me, forgive me!
.
I'm afraid to lose you,
I will continue to be calm and affectionate,
Agree to take a walk with me,
I'm standing under a balcony with flowers.
Of course, everything depends on the degree of guilt, but it is unlikely that a woman will be able to resist poetry (even not always with rhyme) and sincere apologies.
What is forbidden to write to a woman?
There are phrases, after reading which a girl will not communicate with you. Usually this is either vulgar flirtations or self-exaltation. Below we give some examples:
- « Hello, let's get acquainted! "- This phrase is normal, but it gives the right to choose, this question can simply be answered:" No ";
- " You probably won't answer my message, but... " - a demonstration of uncertainty, and this does not paint a man;
- " Maybe I'm not your type " - this is never good for dating. How does she know what kind of person is writing the message if you are just trying to get to know each other;
- " Baby, let's have sex " - but everything is clear right away, but not for serious intentions.
Some ladies will like this context if you are looking for it for these purposes. But when a woman is needed to build a serious relationship or even a family, this proposal is best excluded; - « You have beautiful photos, but the content is just as beautiful? ”- sounds defiant and if some accept the challenge, then most will add to the black list.
Try to be just a person in correspondence with a new acquaintance, communicate on an equal footing, do not belittle yourself and do not put "above" and everything will work out.
We are used to starting a letter with the word "hello", but you can also replace it for originality:
- “You are so beautiful that I forgot to say hello”;
- "There is a thread, I want to make friends here";
- "What can you say about the phonetic analysis of the word?";
- "Do you know that today is Saturday, and not yesterday or even tomorrow?";
- "Tell me, how many electrodes does the transistor have?";
- “Do you play chess? Me not.
"; - "Tryam";
- "Hello" - in Bulgarian.
There are many original phrases, greetings in foreign languages or “terrible” sentences from physics or other complex sciences sound good, they speak of you as an intellectual person. It is difficult to guess right away what a particular girl will like, information from her page on a social network can help.
So, we suggested what to write to a girl so that she would surely be pleased, the rest is up to you. Be gentle but assertive when you're making acquaintances, humble and ingratiating when you're apologizing.
Video: funny attempts to meet
In this video, Daniil Rogozin will show 20 funny "tackles" in a girl, written in VK:
How to make a girl fall in love on WhatsApp - All tips and tricks
Social media is the biggest advantage of being able to chat or flirt with someone.
If you need to conquer a woman in whatsapp you should know that there are some little tricks that you can apply in your conversations. We know that it is much more convenient to communicate from time to time using this application, rather than using the call function on your phone.
To use it correctly, we will select the best options to conquer a person . Do it this way - question use it very calmly, do not expect the dialogues to be very long, and do not expect the other person to be constantly in touch.
Index
- 1 Your goal
- 2 Show interest, but don't give it too much power
- 3 Use emoticons
- 4 Take care of your spelling and how you write
6
5 5 Play0 mysterious target
Your goal is something that should be clear in terms of what you are going to afford, with or without restrictions.
It is important to note that you are about to write to an individual and that you will be interacting with their interests and emotions. Starting a conversation this can be important. A simple "hello" can be quite shy and walk away waiting for an answer, but always you can generate interest. What do you think of "How are you? How did it go?" or "I remembered you." It might mean interest, but we're sure you'll love it.
If you don't meet her in person, you can use humor, Always works. You can mention a photo or something related to what you saw. Use unanswered questions like imagination piques the other person's interest. You can talk about music, places you've visited, or phrases to remember. You can even put him in your statuses so that he also generates interest and wants to use them personally.
Show interest, but don't give him too much power
It's okay to show interest and start a kind of complicity with this girl.
Women love sincerity and attention, but without excessive. I don't like to see the boy constantly getting lost in the conversation and flatter the girl, or let her stay online all day waiting for the conversation. Try to make him see it talking is not the most important thing but meet you face to face. Your interest must be present, you must always offer your company and remind them that you are there for what I need . A nice touch is to remember when you leave work or end a school day, at which point you can ask how it went.
Use emoticons
It's nice to use emoticons so you can understand what it's like without words. We really like to see what the emotions of the person we interact with are. But as recommendation it is not good to use them all the time, it may seem childish.
Take care of your spelling and how you write
Spelling is the best thing to pay attention to when writing.
It will be your best communication tool, as take care of grammar is a fact that is important for many women. Also, do not use difficult language as this may cause discomfort to the woman. They are very grateful discreet and formal messages They should not appear offensive or arrogant. Also, don't overdo it. Nobody likes to read a lot and look at very long paragraphs. Must be direct and brief Let the conversation flow easily and naturally. When texts that are too long are written, it can seem desperate, deprived of social life, and therefore causes a feeling of heaviness. You can check how he speaks and whether he likes the quality or size of the texts. If she is very precise and likes short sentences, then you should respond with her example.
Play Mystery
This is a good tactic, and it turns out create a lead with another person. Take time to reply to his messages and let him tell you little by little how you feel.
