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How can I delete Facebook messages I've sent to other Facebook users from their inbox?

I have had a conversation with my friend but now I want to delete my messages from that conversation. Can I have them deleted from my friend's inbox?

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Since February 2019, New Messenger Feature Gives You Ability to Remove Messages for Everyone.

Simply tap on the message you want to remove and select the option to “Remove for Everyone”. The removed message will be replaced by text alerting everyone in the conversation the message was removed. You will have up to 10 minutes to remove a message after it is sent.


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No, sent messages can't be unsent or removed from the recipient's inbox. Depending on the persons's notification settings, they may also receive your message as an email notification.

Source: Facebook Help Centre

Using "delete" in the messenger deletes the message in your version of the thread but not the recipient's. So deleting a message or conversation from your inbox won't delete it from your friend's inbox. It isn't possible to delete sent or received messages from a friend's inbox.

However there is some workaround is to mark the message as Spam or Abuse (in Actions), then delete it from your messages, and disable/deactivate your account (and re-activate it after few hours), so both people won't see it.

See also:

  • Can I unsend a message once it has been sent? at Facebook Help Centre
  • Need to delete a message I sent so the other person doesn't receive it at Facebook Help Centre
  • Can u delete a message you have sent to someone by accident? at Facebook Help Centre
  • How do I delete a message sent to the wrong person? at Facebook Help Centre

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Once you've sent a message to someone else, you can't delete it from their inbox. Only they can.

You can delete a message by tapping and holding the message and selecting "Remove". (In the web app, hover above the message, then select "..." and "Remove".) If you do this within ten minutes of sending the message, you then have a choice of wether to remove the message only on your side or also for the recipient.

If you chose to "Remove for Everyone" they will see a placeholder where the message used to be, informing them that the message has been deleted.

After more than 10 minutes have passed after sending, you can only remove the message for yourself.

https://www.facebook.com/help/messenger-app/194400311449172

How to Delete All Your Facebook Messages in 2 Easy Ways

  • You can't delete all your Facebook messages at once, but you can delete them one chat at a time.
  • To delete a chat on Facebook, go to the chat settings and click Delete chat.
  • To delete a chat on Messenger, swipe to the left, tap More and Delete.

Facebook Messenger is one of the most popular messaging apps in use today, in large part because it's available on nearly every platform.

But Facebook has never made it especially easy to manage your messages. For example, it took years for Facebook to give users the ability to delete an accidentally sent message from both the sender and receiver's app — and even then you only have 10 minutes to do so.

But what if you want to delete all your messages from Facebook Messenger? Here's what you need to know.

How to delete all Facebook messages

To delete all your Facebook messages, you need to delete them one chat at a time. If you've been a Facebook user for a long time and have a lot of chats, this can take a while.

Note: When you delete messages, you're only deleting them from your own Facebook account. The messages will still be available to whoever you were having a chat with.

Here's how to delete your chats on Facebook, via either an internet browser or the Messenger mobile app.

In a web browser:

1. Log into Facebook and click on the Messenger icon in the top right part of the top menu.

Click on the Messenger icon. Stefan Ionescu/Insider

2. Click the chat that you want to delete.

Quick tip: To quickly find a chat, type the name of the person you were conversing with in the search box, and then click their name when it shows up in the search results.

3. At the top of the chat window, click the arrow to the right of the person's name to open the chat settings. 

4. In the menu that pops up to the left, click Delete conversation.

Click "Delete chat." Stefan Ionescu/Insider

5. In the pop-up window, confirm you want to do this by clicking Delete Chat.

6. Repeat this for every chat you want to remove.

In the mobile Messenger app:

1. Open the Messenger app on your phone. 

2. Scroll to find the chat you want to delete.

3. Swipe the chat to the left, and then tap on More.

Tap on "More" after swiping the chat to the left. Stefan Ionescu/Insider

4. In the menu that pops up, tap Delete

5. In the pop-up menu, tap Delete to confirm your decision.

6. Repeat this for every chat you want to remove.

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Facebook hidden messages

One for regular messages from your friends. The second inbox looks like a spam folder and contains hidden Facebook messages from non-friends that the company thinks you don't know.

Facebook won't delete these messages, but it won't send you notifications that there are new messages in this hidden inbox. This means that you should check your hidden mailbox periodically.

If Facebook thinks you know a non-friend based on connections to your current friends, Facebook will send a new message from that person to your regular inbox as a friend request. If there is no evidence that you know the sender, Facebook sends these messages, such as friend requests, to your secret spam inbox.

Access hidden Facebook messages from the desktop

The fastest way to check your hidden Facebook messages on the desktop is to open the special links for message requests and filtered messages in the browser.

You can also check for these hidden messages on Facebook desktop by following these steps.

1. Open Facebook and click the Messenger icon at the top right of Facebook.

2. Click Message Request in the upper left corner of the menu.

3. Click View Filtered Messages.

4. In the message list, select a message and select Reply to open the dialog or Delete to delete the request.

If you delete the connection request, the message will be permanently deleted. If you send a message to someone who sent you a deleted message, your message will go to their connection requests.

View Facebook secret messages on your phone

Since most people access Facebook through their mobile devices, it's also nice to know how to access hidden messages on Android and iOS devices.

Find hidden Facebook messages with Messenger on Android

1. Open the Messenger app on your Android phone and tap the people icon at the bottom of the screen.

2. Click your person's plus icon in the upper right corner.

3. At the top of the screen, click Requests.

4. Click on each message and click Accept to open the dialog or Ignore to delete the request.

Find hidden Facebook messages with Messenger on iOS

1. Open Messenger on your phone and tap the People icon at the bottom of the screen.

2. Tap the Conversation icon in the top right corner to open a new page with your requests.

3. Tap each message and tap Accept to open the conversation, or Decline to delete the request.

Facebook Post Requests and Community Standards

Facebook implements Community Standards that cover bullying, harassment, threats, and sexual abuse or exploitation. If you feel you have received a message that violates these standards, you can report it to Facebook. The secret message message decrypts the encrypted message so the Facebook help group can view the message.

When this happens, Facebook does not tell the person who started the secret conversation. When you report a secret conversation, the latest messages from that conversation will be transcribed and sent securely from your Facebook profile for viewing. You also have the option to prevent someone from sending you messages on Messenger. You can also block them on Facebook.

Facebook messages, how do we delete, archive and manage them

Hello friends, in today's lesson we will talk about messages on Facebook or Facebook Messages. We'll look at how we can delete a conversation or part of a conversation for those using both the old chat interface and for those using the new Facebook Chat interface.
The idea for this tutorial came to me when I was with a cousin who wanted to erase all the conversations he had for a long time with friends on Facebook. It's not possible to do this because Facebook doesn't allow deleting multiple conversations at the same time, only selective deletion (one at a time). The fact that not all conversations with all friends can be deleted at once is deliberately thought out and structured by Facebook, but I will give you the opportunity to discuss your topic on the topic: “Why do you think Facebook does not want you to be able to delete all Facebook conversations straightaway? "
Also in this lesson we will see what conversations can be in archives (archived messages), what they are and how they archive a conversation.
In general, the use of Facebook messages is very simple, but I decided to make this video tutorial, which many users have asked me to solve this issue on Facebook. In the end, I would like to say that once you delete a Facebook conversation, you will not be able to restore it. Also, if you delete a specific part of a conversation (either yours or the one you were chatting with) it will be deleted, not just for you the one you converted. However, I invite you to watch the tutorial to see exactly how to delete a facebook conversation, such as deleting or archive a conversation just part of a facebook conversation.

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